Blog Post 2 March 2020
Well, here we are at the beginning of the 3rd month of 2020 and it’s certainly been quite the ride to date, yes? I cannot express enough at this time the importance of us all staying in our own energy. What this means is that no matter what is going on around you, in front of you and outside of you, you do not allow it to take you away from your goals or your soul’s purpose at this time in your life.
To learn balance, we have to experience chaos, this is the law of opposites and duality that we live under. And so many people are at this time experiencing all sort of outside forces demanding their time and attention, whilst at the same time, we have the demands of our own dreams, aspirations and needs to be answered. It is tough, really tough when we are being pulled in so many directions for us to maintain our focus and our centre, but this is what we have to do.
The key to this is always emotional reactions and triggers. Everyone around you is a mirror for you in some way, and so those whom you are reacting to the most or who are pushing your buttons the most, are the very ones who are teaching you your greatest life lessons at this time. More often than not that very trait or way of being that someone around you is exhibiting to you, that you may or may not like, is an aspect of yourself that you need to do some work on. And more often than not, that very person whom you are reacting too has the full-blown effect of something that you just have a small amount of, and therefore they are in your life to show you what such a thing can look like when it is given too much energy or allowed to take over. It is actually impossible for the human brain to recognise a trait or behaviour in another person unless you possess that yourself, to some degree. So, if you have people around you at the moment pushing your buttons and causing you to react, stop and have a think about this. Look to what they are doing, saying or being and look to where in your life you can be the same – and then change it. That is their purpose in your life, to show you such things so as you can change what needs to be changed, develop what needs to be developed and let go of what serves no positive purpose in your life. We also have people in our lives who reflect back to us how to be and live in a good and positive way, and once again they are showing you what you too also possess as part of you, and that you can embrace, enjoy and develop more.
Your goals, dreams and visions for your future are yours and yours alone and they are part of your soul’s journey – nobody else’s. Your path is important because you chose it before you were born, and you chose it for many specific purposes that are once again, yours and yours alone. So, while we are experiencing times of so much chaos and change, and that push us out of our comfort zones, it is imperative that we hold on to our own direction and stay on our own path. Your focus, determination and power to achieve your goals in life are of primary importance at this time and it is being severely tested at this time as well. You are being encouraged to remember that you have a plan, you have a path and you have dreams, and all of these are not only of paramount importance to your soul’s journey, they are valid and relative in every way. You are not here to compromise these, give up on these or change these to fit into someone else’s journey or to simply fit in full stop. The more of a worth you can put on yourself and your goals the more likely you are to achieve them and the more love and joy you will find in the process and in the result.
So, stay in your own energy – no matter what is going on around you. Attend to what needs to be attended too in your outside world, but do not do this through self-sacrifice and the denial of the importance of your journey. Support, love and guide those around you, but don’t dive into their stories or make their lives more important than your own. Focus on YOU, on what makes you happy and on where you want to go and who you want to become because this is your story and your journey and only you have the power to complete this. Blessings xox
