“Emotional detachment” is our ultimate goal on the earth plane as Spirits having a human experience. When I say this to people, many feel that this means that they won’t feel any emotions at all, or, that they have to live in a state of permanently giving in too others and being a door mat. Nothing could be further from the truth. When you stand tall in true emotional detachment you are more powerful and more loving than you will ever know.
The Full Moon in Capricorn over the weekend, may have brought up for you issues within the relationships that you have with those around you. Words have been said, defences went up, lines were drawn in the sand, and perhaps for many of you its felt like you have taken a step backwards rather than a step forwards on your life path.
When we practise emotional detachment with those around us, we conduct our relationships on our own terms. This means that we choose NOT to react to the words or actions of others. Choosing not to react is not about giving in, or distancing yourself or even loving everyone no matter what they do. Its about honouring yourself, your feelings and most importantly your intentions. As hard as it may be to understand for many, the world does not revolve entirely around you and what you are feeling, doing or receiving from others. For so long as you believe that it does; blame others for how you feel; or live your life determined by how much others care about you, you are a slave to your Lower Self/Ego, and you will find it very difficult to be happy and at peace.
Anyone around you can do or say whatever they please, that is their choice. However it is YOUR choice how you will react too this. If you truly love someone, do not judge them. They are in their bubble of belief, and playing the starring role in their own production, and this is their choice. And you are doing the same in your life. Perhaps they are asking things of you that you don’t wish to deliver, or perhaps they are putting conditions on how your relationship with them must work? They are entitled to do all of this, but you do not have to play that game or buy into that drama. Just give your love, but stay in your own power. Make your true intentions known, speak your truth, and if another soul does not wish to hear this or does not understand this, do not react to that either. When you come from a space of love, eventually if not immediately, the other party will feel this and will understand where you are coming from, and in the mean time nothing needs to change from your perspective.
So, if you are having problems in any of your relationships at the moment, give more love to that person and to yourself. Honour your intent to be their friend, but do not allow yourself to be dragged down or in to something that is not your production. Be Love, Be Peace and most of all BE HAPPY. Blessings xox
Thanks, great article.